Monday, September 23, 2013

Week 3 in the Field:I am going to be a PRO typer by the end of this 18th month mission (even if I can't speak Japanese or haven't baptized anyone ;) ....I always think that 90 minutes it's going to be PLENTY of time and then I always end up typing like mad down to the last second.
 So a quick update on this week!
 Some HARD days. Lots of people have rejected us, we can't get ahold of the people who were willing to give us their numbers, our most progressed investigator is going to take a "break" from lessons, I still can't speak Japanese and Sister Nakamura still can't speak English, I am still way scared to open my mouth, and 6:30 in the morning is still always a rough couple of minutes for me (no "it's morning time!" coming out of my mouth yet).
 SO why in the world would I keep mission-ing (ha they actually have a verb for that in Japanese) ? Where is God in all of this?? I have caught myself asking myself that quite a bit. And realized just how much my faith needs strengthening this week.....But I have come to the feeling that God is in the heart of each and every person that I see. That's where He is and in EVERYTHING. I can't believe how easy it is for me to forget that. Thanks heavens for wonderful family, friends, and new mission friends that remind me of this. I don't know why God does everything that He does (and why should I?? He know everything and I am seeing the tiniest speck) but I am trying to remember everyday that I should put my full confidence in Him even when it is scary or it doesn't make sense. I think this is why faith is SO important because it is ONLY by faith that we show that WE choose to walk towards Him- we exercise our agency and choose right, we choose His side. As a result, we progress ourselves and He gives us more light to confirm that faith. It's genius. And I am not. And that is why I don't understand everything....yet.
 I do not "like" everything about my mission so far but I am realizing what an opportunity it is to grow and am very grateful to Him for the opportunity.
 Shoot. I am almost out of time..... Anywho. A quick update on EVENTS-
 1- First rain STORM. Nakamura and I got caught far away from the train station walking when it started "raining cats and dogs" (haha taught Sis. Nakamura that) I was SOAKED. We stopped and the rain was super loud, knocked on this random lady's door and asked for a couple umbrellas. Thank heavens the Japanese people are so nice. We got a couple umbrellas. I was still super wet though. It was quite the experience
2- Sundays. I am AMAZED that everything can be so different here but that Sundays are just the same. Ha... 
(there are screaming kids, tired parents, people walking in late, smiling faces, spiritual talks). Love it! One thing that IS different though is that people stay way after church and visit with one another in groups. It's the cutest thing. The other day there were 3 super old Japanese ladies visiting in the kitchen & I found myself thinking- I think this is what the millenium is going to be like.... a bunch of happy people visiting and taking care of each other. I am excited for that!!
3) We had a "phillipino party" we have quite a few Phillipino's in our ward. And they are a party all by themselves. We had good food and they did karaoke (we didn't participate of course) but it was quite entertaining.
 Anywho, another week full of new experiences, struggles, and growing!
 Love you all. Thanks for the prayers. Keep them coming (and please pray that we can find people ready to hear and accept the gospel!)
 LOVE you. LOVE the gospel.
 SIster Haderlie


in the park

Phillipino party!!
Right before they left the MTC. Her district & teachers.
Just got to Japan. Looking a bit wilted.


 Week 1 in the Field:

Let's restart the week count shall we? Holy smokes,  do I have SO much to write. I thought an extra 30 minutes of email time in the field would be enough but it might not be!! haha ......There's a lot more to write when you don't do basically the same thing every week.
 
I am IN JAPAN. Toto, we are definitely NOT in Kansas anymore. :)
 
Some things unique to Japan: 1-Characters everywhere. Ugh... I miss the American alphabet :( ....especially when it comes to reading nutrition labels. I have no clue what I am eating most of the time haha.
2- Stickiness. Why in the world did I have to arrive in Japan in August???? The moment we walk out of the door I am wet and sticky and even once we get home cuz it takes at least 20 minutes to cool our apartment off. Ya the heat has gotten old real quick.
3- Crowded. Ok, this is probably just unique to Japanese cities. But most of the streets are tiny and our apartment is pretty tiny as well. And the train station is pretty crazy. People everywhere. Scratch that. Asians everywhere haha. Seeing an American/ Non Asian is rare.
 
Anywho... let me update you on the course of events.
 
Monday Morning. We escaped the MTC; woo hoo!! But wait... only to lug our 140 lbs of luggage onto the TRAX in 90 degree weather and then switch trains and then all through the airport. One of my bags was 51 #,  but they let it go. WOO! I got to take my hair product with me (thank heavens :). .... Anywho, we all called home and then caught our first plane. About an hour long flight to LA. I sat next to another sister and a Nice Phillipino lady (very "fabulous" long hair and wedge heels and manicured nails) she was super nice!! and we talked to her for a long time. The sister next to me mustered up the courage to give her a Book of Mormon. I admired her courage. I only piped into the conversation sometimes because I was on the outside.
 
We then transferred planes (only had about 20 minutes) so grabbed a quick sandwich (and got lots of strange looks haha) .... Said goodbye to normal American food :( ......:( Talked to some people for a minute or two and then on the plane we went. I sat next to two missionaries this time. I was on the end again. There was a lot of sleeping. Some talking. Some studying. But Mostly watching the plane slowly move from America to Japan on the screens in front of us. :( I didn't get a window seat so I didn't really get to see us fly in. So it was actually fairly anticlimatic ha.  
 
Bam. It became Tuesday Night (thanks to the time change). And we found ourselves in Japan. We then stepped off the plane and .....drumroll. Wetness. It feels like I'm at the aquatic center all the time ha. We caught a bus, went through customs, and then were met by the President, his wife and the AP's. EVERYONE was tired and looked pretty sweaty and exhausted haha. All 34 of us plus those greeting us. We were quite the sight. We jumped on a bus (and filled out lots of forms) and ate some sushi. Mmh.. that was interesting. Then the girls got to stay in the mission home. The girls in my district were the first inside so we got to stay in the "GAuthority" room...Me and Sister Day got to sleep in the bed. And apparently Elder Nelson visited not too long ago so.....if you connect the dots ;) We slept in a holy bed. All of us were talking and organizing and showering for a long time so we didn't get much sleep.
 
Wednesday. Training. All day. By about 4 o clock we were all feeling the jet lag. And that night we got to play a game with the English class students. That was pretty funny. Ha Japanese people are just really funny. Anywho, I saw a Japanese girl walking around and decided to talk to her. I asked her if she wanted to practice her English and so we talked for a bit. I then noticed she was actually a sister missionary.. Sister Nakamura. The next day she became my COMPANION. haha.....So yep. My area is the "number one" area on the map I left at home. Called Nakano area in the Tokyo Stake so I live like 5 minutes away from the mission home and the office. Which has been really fun and both of those are right next to the church.
 
I just realized how much time I have left so I really have to hurry......
 
Anywho. Sister Barret is in area number 2 (which is the most "city" area). So I will get to see her at some zone meetings. But my area: SO....its pretty "city". But not like skyscraper city. And my ward has quite a few people that speak English! That is super nice. But...
 
Thursday. More training; then at noon we all were told our companions and areas. It was crazy. We all took a picture and then off we went. Since I was already in my area we just walked to our apartment. It was kind of weird. The first day is a blur. I think she just introduced me to a few things. The jet lag hits me pretty hard sometimes. And between Japanese, the heat, and the Jet lag,  sometimes I get really dizzy and have to sit down for a minute haha. Other than that I have been doing well health wise :)
 
Friday. We had a lunch appointment with a brand new investigator. Her name is "Lily san" (names are kind of weird here ha) and she is actually Chinese but can speak Japanese. Her apartment was really nice and cool. So that I liked. But I bet you can guess what kind of food we ate. Asian. And I bet you can guess how much I understood. Not very much. haha Plus. Something about being a missionary makes people want to give you like 5 pounds of food to eat every time you come over. If you ever have missionaries over please tell them they can stop eating when they're full!! They'll appreciate it , I promise :) ....ha anywho, I did my best to eat it. There were dumplings; those aren't too bad. But the other stuff was...well anyways. I was glad when she started cleaning up ha. She is kind of older- maybe 40's. Her husband passed away and now she has a boyfriend in Australia and is moving there so we don't have much time to teach her. We shared some favorites scriptures from the BoM (I shared Alma 26:12), then we taught her how to pray, gave her a Restoration pamphlet, and asked her to read and pray everyday. We asked her to give a closing prayer and she didn't even close her eyes or fold her arms haha. It's kind of amazing how many people don't even know how/ haven't prayed. We're lucky to know how to. 
 
Apparently there is a holiday this week. I can't pronounce it or remember what it's called. But everyone is going places or has to work so we probably won't meet with most of our investigators.
 
Saturday. We visited a less active. Named Rochelle. I loved it! We took the train for the first time. Kind of a crazy experience. So a little background on Rochelle.... her mom "Baby Shimai" is in our ward.  They are both Phillipino. Which is SO fun. They speak English and Japanese. Woo! And feed us yummy food like creme puffs and pasta. So I am not opposed to visiting her. Plus I actually get to teach. We talked about God's love and I testified about the miracle we experienced in our family. I actually don't think I have told you this. But one night when I was a sophomore in high school, I was really worn out from the divorce, and my long  busy days. I was exhausted; and I broke down. I asked Heavenly Father for strength cuz I didn't think I could do it any more and that somehow He would help my family. I heard "It will be ok." But I didn't understand how it could since I was the only very active one. Then you all got remarried :) I told her I know God loves everyone and all He asks is for us to be obedient. And then when we keep on enduring and obeying,  He blesses us and we see miracles happen in our life. She married a nonmember Japanese man so I think that might be why it is hard for her to come to church. But Baby Shimai is active and had a lot of "mission fire" so she is helping us!
 
Sunday. CHURCH :) I love Sundays. But that day the Jet Lag hit me hardest ( I may or may not have nodded off in relief society ha woops.....) Anywho. It was a fun experience. and Everyone is really nice. I just hope I can feel better next time!
 
Some additional:
 
- I will try and send pics, I didn't really take too many ( I feel really unattractive here, always sweating and frizzy hair.... but I will try and make myself. Really coveting Danielle's naturally straight hair right now ha).
 
- My Comp. Japanese, doesn't speak much English. That's been a challenge but we get by. Sister Nakamura. There is an "I'm a Mormon" video about her mom actually. Go to mormon.org and type in Nakamura. She has two sisters. She had cancer when she was younger and is the youngest girl. She looks like Mulan haha.
 
- Bro. and Sister Harris. My new grandparents. Sister Harris reminds me tons of Gram Linda. SO sweet!! They are from Utah and are the Mission secretary/ financial adviser. We get to stop in every day at the office and see them and hang out with them a bit on P Day. LOVE them! I will try to get a pic.
 
- Baby Shimai. She is Grammy Monna to a T, but the Phillipino version. haha.... Short hair, olive skin, and white straight teeth. And same mannerisms too. It's trippy. haha her Phillipino accent is so cute. I will also try to get a pic with her. So it's fun to have some fill-in grandmas here :) So grandma. Get some of that mission fire and get the family to meet with the missionaries ;)
 
Love you all!! Don't have tons of time left. But hopefully I filled you in enough.
 
Pray for all the missionaries and their investigators please.
 
Sister Haderlie
 
PS ( Our most progressed investigator was sick on Sunday so I haven't met her yet but her name is Ou san and we are trying to set a baptismal date with her and will let you know more about her next time...love ya!)    

Monday, July 29, 2013

soooo....I know it says posted by Chloe Haderlie @ the bottom of the posts, but it's really me, her mom; & I don't know how to change it!! I really don't even know why that last post scrolls. (the others didn't). ://